Thursday, December 27, 2012

Christmas Eve and the Nativity

Something about Christmas Eve always brings out the excitement of the season for me. I have a list of ideas for traditions I hope to start once our kids are a bit older (once we're out of the nap time/early bedtime stage). Acting out the Nativity has always been one of my favorite Christmas Eve traditions, and in the future, I hope to make it like a play with actual speaking parts, lots of songs incorporated, etc (gotta remember to get a copy of the script that Karlee wrote). 

While the girls got into costume, Cal hung with his Grandpa Al. It wasn't long before they were both fast asleep (pre-nativity cat nap did wonders in making for a perfect baby Jesus:)!

Elle first requested to be a lamb, but eventually gave in and agreed to be Joseph. Madi, of course, was Mary and had to remind us why she couldn't smile for the pictures: "because Mary is delicate". Thanks to Uncle Michael for volunteering to play the donkey - giving Mary and Joseph a fun ride into Bethlehem!

Uncle Morgan (shepherd), Aunt Jocelyn (angel), and Aunt Corinne (wise woman):

Cal wrapped in "swaddling clothes", laying in the "manger":

Bringing forth gifts. . .

The whole crew:

Grandpa Al reading the traditional "T'was the Night Before Christmas" story:

Then we hurried home for jammies and Santa letters:
I SO love the excitement that Christmas Eve brings! 

Pre-Christmas

December has flown by much too quickly for my liking. I can hardly believe that Christmas has already come and gone. Each day seems to pass faster than the last and all the events that I wanted great documentation of are now beginning to blur in my mind. Makes me so sad when I'm not able to document as I'd like to. I have a lot of catching up to do, so here goes a brief summary of pre-Christmas activities....

Dec. 14th: Spencer cleaned up my Dad's old train and got it working again. Calvin fell in love! We put it around the tree and Spence would make sure he and Cal had "train time" every night (how Spence loves having his boy to do "boy things" with)!

Dec. 15th: Family shopping for secret Santa gifts. It was fun to have this project to stress the importance of giving and thinking of others, but the shopping part with all three kids was so not fun (Madi and Elle one-on-one are total sweethearts, but put em together and you get complete craziness)!

Dec. 15th (evening): Our Gingerbread House started out as a family affair, but then kids got tired, Spencer got possessive, and ended up working on it til midnight putting on the finishing touches. I sure loved watching his concentration while creating this masterpiece (Spence has ten times the creative juices that I've got - so NOT fair)!
Final Product!

Dec. 16th: Christmas cards - which always turn into such a huge project!!
Dec. 17th- 20th: Cookie making (another huge project)- Peanut butter balls, sugar cookies, and m&m cookies! After two nights of frosting and decorating til 11pm (alone), I got a little burnt out and shortened my list of cookie plate receivers. Cal and Elle joined me during the week for visiting teaching and cookie delivery. Thinking about doing something easier next year.
One afternoon I let the girls decorate their own sugar cookies. I had such a great time watching them make their own creations, that I began to think that cookie plates might just one day be a bit easier - once my girls are old enough to really help.

Dec. 17th: Went with the whole family (Boppi and Grandpa Al included) to see the play The Best Christmas Pagent Ever. It was interesting. Not something Spencer would have chosen, but we had a personal invitation from Chet Thomas and it was free. I personally thought it was a good experience for Madi and Elle, plus it was great to see the Thomas family!

Dec. 18th: Madi's Mother Goose Play was an absolute riot! I had a such a great time listening to her and her classmates recite nursery rhymes while incorporating actions, songs, and their darling personalities. It was a fabulous show! Madi made one adorable Little Miss Muffet (and yes, she was in love with her costume)!
Madi was beyond thrilled when she heard her daddy was taking the morning off of work to come to her play.
Elle (who's currently going through an awkward smile stage) was super excited to watch her big sister perform. We joined Madi in her classroom afterwards for a cast party!

Dec. 21st: Primary Activity- Caroling at an assisted living center followed by ice cream party with Christmas movie at the church.
It was at the ice cream party that I realized Elle wasn't feeling good (got her ice cream and never took a bite of it). This was the start of the dreaded cold (terrible cough, runny nose, stuffy head, etc) bug that's been going through our house (I'm still not feeling 100%).

Dec. 23rd: Spending time with extended family is always a treat during the holiday season. Corinne, Morgan, and cousin Bailey (14 months) got into town on the 18th, but because of busy schedules, it wasn't until the weekend that we really got to hang out with them. Then Joc and Michael got in late on the 22nd. Although the driving back and forth from mom and dad's gets a little tiring, we love being able to join in on all the fun!

Nov 23- Dec. 24th: Waking up to discover where "Mr. Elf" had hidden himself was a daily treat!

December is always such a busy month. But despite all the busyness, I sure tried my hardest to make it a magical month for my kids.  I made sure we read Christmas stories each night before bed (lots of the feel good ones from the Friend), listened to tons of Christmas music, watched Christmas movies, talked about Jesus, and looked for ways to help or serve others. But for some reason, it never really felt like Christmas to me. There was even a moment when I was longing for snow - just to help it feel more like Christmas. Luckily, the magic did happen for me and our Christmas was wonderful (post coming soon).

Friday, December 14, 2012

Grandparents

Last weekend Spencer, the kids, and I drove up to Brentwood for a visit. We got there Saturday afternoon and stayed still Tuesday. It was fast, but we had a really good time. I love how excited our kids get to see their grandparents. I have especially fond memories from my childhood of visiting our grandparents in Ontario, OR and I love creating those same memories for my own kids. Actually, this trip to Brentwood was specifically planned because my grandparents were up visiting my parents - making it an extra special visit.

I was excited for Calvin to meet his GREAT grandparents for the very first time!

Saturday afternoon we hung out at the house. Mom made a yummy smoked salmon dinner and Aunt Fay and Uncle Bob drove up from Half Moon Bay to join us. Bummed I didn't get a pic of all of us together at dinner, but isn't this a good-lookin couple!

On Sunday the girls sang a duet of "Teach Me About the Temple" during sacrament meeting. Spencer and I were both beyond nervous. They didn't have a whole lot of practice and the times they did practice, it was crazy slow and dragging. Of course I'm going to be more critical than others, but it definitely needed more work. Luckily, everyone else thought it was amazing and the girls received lots of compliments about what a sweet song it was, how cute they were together, and how beautifully they sang. I was just glad to have it over. Later I learned why Madi was dragging so bad. Second and third hour Madi complained about not feeling well. Then as we was got into car to drive home she started shivering with the chills. We found out she had a fever, and as soon as we got back to my parents she immediately headed upstairs and crawled into bed. Poor little girl.  She just didn't feel good. Elle had a great time in nursery though. Heather Tucker is amazing and always has the coolest activities. This Sunday they made gingerbread houses!

The rest of the weekend we just enjoyed spending time with Gram, Papa, Grandpa and Grandma.

Funny story . . . my mom and dad always like to get little special surprises for the girls when they come to visit. A week or two ago my mom asked the girls what they wanted for Christmas. Madi tells her a fly swatter. This surprised my mom and she proceeded to ask if we have a fly problem at our house. I just laughed and told her how back in the summer, when we'd be barbecuing or just happen to leave the back door open, a fly or two would come in. Flies are annoying though - obviously annoying enough to leave an impression on Madi. She's been wanting a fly swatter ever sense. Leave it to Gram to take care of my daughter's dreams. She found a nice big fly swatter and then added some bling to make it fit for a princess (notice second pic below- it's adorned with sparkles)! Thanks Gram for the awesome surprise!
More surprises from the weekend are mentioned below! The fun didn't stop with the fly swatter!! :)

Monday afternoon we all headed across the street to attempt a family picture (for our soon to be mailed out Christmas card). But of course, anytime I try to force Elle to wear anything, tantrums start and tears are shed. And this time was no different! Elle threw one royal fit - ripping off her dress, destroying her hair, causing her to look pretty much like a ragamuffin for all the pictures. And on top of that, I wasn't a fan of Madi's outfit, but realized it wasn't worth the argument. My goal for next year is to get a family picture taken earlier - not forced or rushed.
Wait . . . is that a smile from Elle!??! 

Four Generations:

It was hard to say goodbye Tuesday morning. Our kids are showered with so much love and attention every time they come to Gram and Papa's house, and this time was no different.

About 30 minutes into our drive home, Elle commented about wanting to go back and wished someone would "pull our car back to Gram and Papa's". Madi quickly chimed in in agreeance. Instead I had everyone help me make a list of all our favorite things from the trip. I was planning on writing a cute thank you card to send to my parents, but life won't seem to slow down and I haven't had a minute to do it, so I'll include our list on here for now.

Madi & Elle's favorite things:
*Playing with the Dora dollhouse (Elle)
*Getting our kitchen (mom and dad let them open an early Christmas present- another fun surprise)
*Projects with Gram (Mom is always prepared with all sorts of fun craft projects. This time they made an advent Santa Claus using cotton balls, a reindeer from tracing hands and feet, and a snowman with foam stickers.)
*Coloring in Papa's office (it's always a treat for the girls to join Papa upstairs in his office while he's working).
*Sleeping with Gram (Elle slept in mom's office and Madi slept on the floor in my parents room, and every night mom tucked the girls into bed. Elle would fall asleep within seconds of my mom singing and scratching her back. She thought Gram was going to sleep in the office with her, so every morning around 5am my mom would move into where Elle was sleeping so that she wouldn't be alone when she woke up. Elle figured Gram slept there the whole night. What lucky girls to have such an sweet Gram!)
*Stories with Gram (we all love the "Gram bag" that's packed with tons of great stories)!
*The park and swings with Papa (my dad's always up for a walk to the park and playing with the girls).
*Seeing Grandmother and Grand Papa!!

Other favorites from Spencer's list:
*Gram's rolls
*Sugar cookies
*Hair cut from mom
*Movie (Lincoln) with Dad and Grandpa
*Visiting with Grandpa and Grandma
*Hot tubbin
Yup! Always a great time at Gram and Papa's! Thanks Mom, Dad, Grandpa, and Grandma for the fun weekend!

Oh, and Mr. Elf had a good time as well. He snuck into our car sometime Saturday morning after his nightly visit to the North Pole and kept an eye on the kids the entire weekend. Calvin especially liked where he decided to "hang out" for the drive home. . .
It was a little too tempting though. The girls had to keep reminding Cal not to touch him!

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Leg surgery

This morning (6:30am) I went in for the last of my vein procedures - Stab Phlebectomy on my right leg. Of all the vein stuff I've had done, this procedure was the one I was nervous about- mostly because of having to go under anesthesia and all the effects of it. Thankfully everything went well. Spencer was a champ and handled our morning routine perfectly - kids fed, dressed, lunch packed, Cal napped, Madi to school, and Elle dropped off at a friends house all before heading over to the hospital with his mom to pick me up. He's been swapped at work, so after checking me out of the hospital, he headed to the office while mom drove me home and spent the day with me. Originally I had told her I'd be totally fine and had everything taken care of. I'm not the type to ask for help, don't like putting people out, and I'm usually pretty controlling about all the house stuff, but I was so thankful for her help today. I was super dizzy and groggy when we first got back, so while I layed down, she took care of feeding, playing with, and putting Calvin down for a nap. She picked Elle up from her friends house, and helped entertain the girls once Madi was home from school. Then around 4pm the girls started getting antsy so she loaded them up and took them to her house to play. Spencer picked them up there, ate dinner with mom and dad, and got home just in time to get the girls off to bed.

At the end of the day I was left feeling extrememly grateful . . .
-For an incredible husband who, no matter how busy work gets, always stays so involved in the day to day stuff.
-For his great job providing us with insurance to take care of these types of things.
-For a wonderful mother-in-law that was more than willing to drop everything from her busy schedule to come take care of me and the kids.
-For fabulous friends who were quick to volunteer to help with school pick up, drop off, lending breast pump, etc.
I am truly blessed!

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

That time of the year!

November flew by much too fast for me. I have yet to record all the tree/turkey/thankful crafts that the girls finished during the month. Thanks to Madi we always had some sort of art project going. Then before I knew it, December was here and I have a feeling it's gonna fly by just as fast. We got our first Christmas card in the mail on Saturday (which I LOVED- Christmas cards always make me happy :). But the start of the cards also leave me feeling just a tad of pressure. There's so much to get done and just not enough time!

Our first weekend in December was action packed! We got our Christmas tree Saturday afternoon, which included a complete transformation of the front room- moving Madi's art table to the garage and Elle's to the play/guest room. I loved how anxious the girls were about setting up our tree and getting out decorations, but in all honesty, their excitement was just a bit overwhelming and I was sure ornaments were going to get broken before even getting on the tree.
Saturday night was our Ward Christmas party - Polar Express theme. I was "Anie the Elf" and did the reading of the Polar Express story before Santa showed up. You can't tell it from the pictures below, but Madi and Elle could barely contain their excitement about sitting on Santa's lap! They'd rehearsed what they were going to say in addition to what they were going to ask for - Madi, a diary with a lock and Elle, a trampoline and princess baby. Madi had authoritatively decided that she was going to sit on Santa's lap first since she was older, and Elle would go second. Then one of the young women accidently sent Elle up first which left Madi in tears. Thank goodness they didn't last for long.
Is it just me and the matching jammies, or do my girls look SO much alike!?!
Cal's first time meeting Santa and we even got a smile!!
Please excuse all the bad shadows, fuzziness, and awkward smiles. Pictures in the church gym never seem to come out for us.

Sunday we had tithing settlement and I had a little chat with our Bishop about a new calling I'm going to be getting- leaving me feeling a lOT overwhelmed!

Sunday night we recorded the First Presidency Christmas devotional (cause we weren't home to watch it) and had all intentions of watching it as a family for FHE. But then Spencer had to work late (again) and the girls were a bit hyper, so I changed our activity and made a home movie of them singing primary songs instead. I was able to watch the devotional later by myself and as always, was so touched. It was exactly what I needed to give me the direction and focus for this Christmas season.

Oh, and one more thing... Mr. Elf is back! He arrived a couple weeks ago (Thanksgiving night) and has been having all sorts of fun while the kids sleep!