The week before Madi's birthday was a busy one and I had no plans of throwing a big party. We'd previously decided that next year would be "friend party" year for Madi and she was totally content with having a small party here at home, celebrating with just family. She had originally asked for a Tangled party and wanted to act it out which I thought we could have a little fun with. Then on the phone, Madi told my mom all about her "Tangled Party" and how she wanted to be the queen, Spencer the king, my mom the witch (Mother Gothel), Elle as Rapunzel, and my dad as Flynn Rider (I obviously wasn't included in Madi's plans)! Of course my mom totally jumped on this and got super excited. She secretly made plans with my dad to drive up Wednesday night and surprise Madi the morning of her birthday. Little did I know, my mom (knowing that I'd had a super busy week) went ahead and planned a Tangled Party. She got onto pintrest, got tons of ideas, rewatched the movie, created costumes, made up games, and even brought stuff for Madi's dessert.
As soon as Madi fell asleep Wednesday night, my mom and dad showed up- armed with all sorts of decorations and ideas! They immediately got to work, making poof balls, hanging lanterns, putting up wanted posters, etc. etc. They pretty much transformed our living room into a sceen from Tangled. It was super fun and I was giddy with excitement!
Thursday morning, 6:30am, I was sitting in Calvin's room nursing when I hear Madi come out of her room. Luckily Spencer also heard her. We both jumped up, meeting her at her bedroom door, video camera in hand. We sang happy birthday and then asked if she was ready for her first surprise. We opened the door to our guest room and told her to take a peek. My parents sat up in bed and started singing happy birthday! What a fun surprise for Madi. My parents climbed out of bed and led Madi around the corner to the living room where Spencer and I waited with video and camera for her next surprise.
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| Madi and Elle checking out all the surprises on the present table. |
It was a fun morning with a pancake breakfast (Madi's request), playing "find Pascal", and opening presents from my parents (mom couldn't wait til the evening)! Madi had asked for a few things for her birthday and luckily all her birthday wishes came true! She had asked for a princess book, a new doll, light-up shoes, and a butterfly cake. Below is the first present Madi opened- a collection of the classic princess stories. There's a quote from Albert Einstein on the dedication page of the book that I love: "If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales."
And that's exactly how we spent the rest of the morning- reading fairy tale after fairy tale. I was surprised with how attentive Madi and Elle were with the stories. There were fewer pictures, more text, and higher level words, but they stayed completely focused and interested.
Madi's second gift was a doll (just as she had asked for), but this doll wasn't like any other baby Madi and Elle already have. This was a special doll my mom had found in some specialty store in San Francisco. On one end the doll is Cinderella in rags:And that's exactly how we spent the rest of the morning- reading fairy tale after fairy tale. I was surprised with how attentive Madi and Elle were with the stories. There were fewer pictures, more text, and higher level words, but they stayed completely focused and interested.
Then you flip the doll over and it's Cinderella in her gown. Madi's already had so much fun dressing up as Cinderella's twin and insisting I take a picture of them!
We'd originally planned on going to the beach for Madi's birthday, but she was having so much fun at home that she decided we should just go the next day. It worked out better anyway cause we actually still had a lot to do before the evening. We had to finish her cake, wrap presents that arrived that day, and get everything ready for dinner. My parents are always great with making a normal afternoon extra fun. They took the girls to the park and then onto the store to pick up last minute stuff for dinner (plus some extra treats for the girls)!
Blue jello for the water and an orange slice for the boat. Cute cute!
While we were waiting for Grandpa Al, and Boppi to arrive I let the girls get started on their dinner. Madi wanted to sit at the adult table while Elle decided to eat at our small picnic table. As we were hustling around inside the kitchen and the girls were outside eating, we hear Elle's little voice call out, "Happy Birthday Madi!" Such sweet little sisters!
After dinner, per Madi's request, we had a (very) short enactment of Tangled. I actually don't think it was what Madi had in mind, but I know she was very pleased with the costumes!
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| The King and Queen |
After a good laugh we brought out cake and ice cream. Madi had been asking for a butterfly cake, which thanks again to my mom, she got! My parents found the butterfly cake pan in Monterey and my mom very patiently spent a couple hours in the afternoon decorating it (pretty sure I wouldn't have been able to make it this beautiful):
After cake and ice cream Madi opened presents. She got light-up shoes from Gram Rox (just as she had wanted), an awesome bubble blowing machine (that she and Elle have already have tons of fun with) from Boppi and Grandpa Al, matching 4th of July shirts (for her and Elle) from Elle, a clock/ cd player for her bedroom (something she's desperately been needing), Sound of Music DVD (watched bits of it at Boppi and Grandpa Al's and fell in love), and lots of clothes from Spencer and I. It was a very happy 5th birthday for Madi! Big thanks to Gram and Papa for all their help in making it a special day!







































































