Monday, March 8, 2010

All in a week

Haven't gotten around to blogging about anything this week- probably cause I haven't taken any pictures for over a week and a half. There was definitely reason to celebrate this past week though, mostly because of:

1) The glorious sun (I celebrate the high 50's)!!!
2) The yucky black snow finally disappearing! It's almost all gone- those ginormous piles will probably take another week to finally melt down.
3) First flip flop wear of the season!
4) Several trips to the park, with it actually being warm and dry enough to go on the swings (Madi's favorite). Elle found pushing Madi on the swings to be a completely hysterical thing.
5) Madi using the potty for the babysitter!

My nights have been preoccupied with projects and such. I feel like there's a lot of life changes happening for us right now- with thinking about moving, turning down a potential job offer, registering for the bar, wondering where we'll end up after that- there's been a lot on my mind.
This week is Spencer's spring break and he'll be spending it the same way he spent last years- fly fishing! This time he and his buddy are heading south to the Smoky Mountains of Tennesse. Spencer's very excited! As for the girls and I, we're also heading south- to North Carolina- to hang out with the Calhouns and Gram! We're super excited about meeting the newest addition to the Calhoun family- who's now 10 days old! Madi can't stop talking about getting to play with her cousins and meet baby Sam!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Article of Faith #8

I know I said I was going to teach Madi the Articles of Faith in order, but this one's just too much fun to save for later!
Madi loves having her very own Book of Mormon. She reminds us to read every night, and on several different occasions I've heard her reading her scriptures to her animals and babies during "nap time". The other day, while standing outside Madi's door I hear, "Now I'm gonna read the scriptures. You need to be reverent. And it came to pass, that Nephi and (making up other names). . . Panda Bear, you're not being reverent!"

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

We are SO ready....

For swimsuit season!!
A super fun package came in the mail today for the girls and I! Oh how it made our day! These adorable swimsuits were included. Since they could pretty much pass for ballet tutus, I had Madi show me some of her moves!
I kept begging Madi to hold still, give me a nice smile, and get Elle to smile (is that too much to ask?). This is what I got. . .
After my attempted photo shoot, the girls wore their suits into the bathtub (sorry, no pics- bath time tends to get a little crazy)! Only 3 more months until our pool opens!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Article of Faith #2

I couldn't decide if I wanted to teach the Articles of Faith in order, so we'd been working on #8 (one of my favorites). But then Spencer made the executive decision that it'd be best (and probably easier to remember) if we went in order. I don't know how I'm going to get Madi to remember all 13 without teaching her the songs. But can I just say, I do NOT like the tune to the new songs! They're all so boring!! Is it bad if Madi learns a different tune than the Primary Song book teaches?

Monday, February 22, 2010

Feeling blessed

The past few days I've been feeling kinda blah. I don't know what it is, but nothing seems to get me motivated. I haven't felt like my normal, energetic self. I'm lacking motivation (my house seems to be a constant mess), I'm tired and lethargic (my work-outs have been really struggling), and then I end up annoyed and frustrated about the things I didn't get done.

I'm not quite sure what could be causing this funk- I'm thinking mostly the weather (something about a warm sunny day always gives an me added boost of energy), but after a morning of feeling bad for myself- whining about having to share a car with Spencer, griping about my morning plans being thrown off because of his schedule, longing for warmer weather and walks to the park, I talked to my sister and found out that a close friend of hers (who I've been getting updates on for awhile now) passed away this morning after a long battle with bone cancer. She left behind a husband and 3 kids (ages 2, 4, and 6). It broke my heart. I spent my girls nap time in tears. I can't imagine going through something like this. My greatest fear is loosing a child and/or my husband. But then I started to wonder what would be harder- loosing one of them, or me loosing all of them. I can't imagine what this mom went through, knowing that she wouldn't get to watch her kids grow up, not to mention the 2 youngest probably not remembering her.

My sister said her friend was super positive about it all the way up to the very end. It made me think about the trials we're given. I'm always wondering what my big trial is going to be. Up to this point in life everything has seemed pretty easy. Even though we're super poor, crazy in debt, and don't know what life has in store for us after Spencer takes the bar in July, we're all very healthy, truly happy, have a nice home, warm beds to sleep in, and the gospel of Jesus Christ in our lives. I'm tremendously blessed. So, today my heart goes out to the Stubben family- our prayers are with them.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

7 months

It's been quite the interesting month- a lot of changes, some drama and stress, but of course lots of laughs and smiles! Elle started out her 6th month of life with some serious separation anxiety! Of course right?! I knew it was bound to happen. It started anytime I'd go to lay her down. Knowing what was coming, she'd instantly begin crying. Ah- it drives me crazy!! I hate to see her sad (especially when it's because she wants to be with me), and I do love sitting and snuggling her, but seriously- I refuse to create a monster! She's actually gotten a little better- I just always have to make sure naps and bedtime are timed perfectly. If she's the least bit overtired, she'll always end up crying. Aside from naps and bedtime, she'll cry when I leave the room if she's all alone or if she can hear me but doesn't know where I am! It's not bad though- I went through it with Madi so I'm not too worried about dealing with it again.

*Warning* If you're not comfortable reading about bodily functions (namely poop and the inability to do so), please do not read the following two paragraphs.

As for changes- I started Elle on baby food two days after she turned 6 months. Everything was going great! She's a fabulous eater- loving all the food I was giving her, even opening up real wide and saying, "Ahhhh". Then almost 2 weeks into her "new foods" experience, I gave her a jar of bananas (I wasn't planning on letting her eat the entire jar, but she was just loving it way too much). BAD idea! I then spent the next week dealing with constipation (I know- such a lovely conversation piece)! But really, it's been quite stressful for me (as I'm sure it would be for any mom). It's not fun watching your 6th month old cry in pain when they have to go! After stool softeners, a trip to the Dr. and completely changing the foods I give her, I think I've finally got the problem under control (knock on wood). I've taken her completely off of cereal and only feed her a jar of fruit in the morning (can only be: peaches, prunes, or pears), and a jar of veggies in the evening (peas or green beans). Quite the boring diet if you ask me, but I'm still a little nervous to try anything else.

Well, the stress didn't end there. Since Elle wasn't popping regularly and would painfully cry every time she was trying to have a bowl movement, it messed her sleeping up a bit. The only way (I believe) to get a baby to sleep through the night to to not go and get them when they cry. Well, Elle's present circumstance made this a little difficult. She'd cry out in the night and I'd fly out of bed knowing that she was trying to poop. Using my trusty flashlight I'd peek into her diaper to check it out. Sure enough, she usually was- so then I'd have to take off her pj's, undo her diaper, and push her legs up to her chest to help it out (sorry for all the vivid details). There were a couple nights I had to do this 3 different times (doesn't sound that bad, but remember- I hadn't been pulling nights like that since the beginning of October- so it was definitely exhausting)! It's now been a week since her last episode and Elle's thankfully doing much better. She is currently still waking up once though.
Before I get to the fun, happy, wonderful parts about the month- I have to say one more thing about sleep. Elle is an incredibly short napper. I'm not used to a baby needing such little sleep- at this age Madi always took a 2 hour morning nap and a 3 hour afternoon nap. Since Elle likes to nap in short increments, it's been tricky trying to get rid of her third nap of the day. Luckily, she had a whole week at the beginning on February where everyday she'd take a full 2 hour afternoon nap! It was wonderful and I'm trying my hardest to make it the norm.
I think it was all the constipation/ sleeping drama that threw Elle off. She just didn't seem like her happy, easy-going self this month. But then about a week ago, I solved the poop problem, Elle had a huge blow-out, and she instantly had her charming personality back. Since then Elle's back to being her happy, smiley self. Elle's actually become even more fun and entertaining this month. She'll dance when music comes on, and laughs at the littlest things. And it's not always just that cute "baby laugh". It's the whole body, fling your head back, and bounce off the pillow type of laugh (still working on getting a good video of this- it's hysterical). Here's a couple videos to give you a glimpse.

Most of the time Elle just laughs at all the weird noises we make- but sometimes she's the instigator. . .

One last thing to note for the month- not only is Elle's dark hair fading, but she's also loosing her curl. The only time I kinda see curl anymore is after the bath when her hair is still wet. It's adorable! But, I do realize that her hair was destined to be straight (and blonde)!

Monday, February 15, 2010

Let me count the ways...

Flowers sent from our neighbor- for shoveling her car out. Is that not just the sweetest thing!?

It's been a good weekend. So good in fact, that I've forgotten all about the cabin fever I'd come down with earlier in the week. We've now spent a grand total of 11 days together as a family! It was quite the unexpected vacation but now with knowing that Spencer will be officially going back to work and school tomorrow, I'm a little sad to see it over (just a little). I think we're all ready to get back to our normal schedules!

Madi's picture of our family- in the snow!

A few things that made this past weekend a good one:
1) Went out as a family Friday afternoon- very needed since we'd been homebound Wednesday and Thursday.
2) Got a babysitter on Saturday so I could go on a hot date with my honey.
3) One hour of church on Sunday! Not only did the snow cancel work, school, and church last week, our regional Stake Conference was canceled for this weekend. And since our church parking lot hasn't been completely cleared of snow, there wouldn't been enough parking for the three wards that meet in our building- hence only meeting for one hour (well, ended up being more like an hour and a half).
4) Homemade pizza for dinner. I can always count on Spencer to whip up something amazing!
5) Movie and dessert after kids went to bed (well, this is really how we spent the majority of our snowy evenings. Here's our list (in the order we watched them):
* New in Town (A- super funny- thanks Aunt Fay and Uncle Bob for the recommendation)
* Post Graduate (C+ it was ok, some weird parts)
* The Guardian (A- good movie, entertaining)
* Blindside (A+ Awesome movie- definitely one we'll be buying)
* My One and Only (D+ kinda slow, a little weird)
* Love Happens (B- entertaining, a little sad, but love didn't really happen)

P.S. I just looked out the window and it's now snowing- again! I have a feeling this is going to be the longest winter ever!

Friday, February 12, 2010

Works every time!

I love sticker charts! I loved then when I taught 4th grade, I loved them when I taught 5th grade, and I'm lovin now! They're totally effective with Madi! We set a goal not too many days ago and I probably should have made it a little harder cause Madi's already earned her bike (thankfully, giving up the binky was way too easy- she seems to even sleep better without it)!! No, we haven't gotten her a bike yet (cause honestly, where would she ride it- through all the snow?!)! Thankfully, our crazy weather conditions have bought us some time. We did let Madi get on the internet today to look at what type of bike she'd be interested in getting though.

Now on to our next sticker chart goal. . . .

Today I set a "being obedient" goal with Madi. Our FHE lesson this week was on obedience and doing things the first time mom or dad ask her to do it. It hasn't been a problem, but I'm pretty sure Madi will start finding ways to really impress us if stickers randomly came with her obedience! She'll get a sticker at random times during the day when she quickly obeys the first time (this is where we bust into song- "Quickly I'll Obey" :).

The reward: For every 5 sticker she earns, she'll get a special treat with mom and/or dad (I'm thinking anything from reading a special story with us, to sharing a thing of jello pudding).
Consequences: If she's not obeying I'll remove a sticker from her chart (of course this will also be followed by her regular time out discipline).

I'm excited to see how it's gonna work. I'm thinking it will be great because I can use it for pretty much anything- getting dressed, eating dinner, sharing toys, cleaning up, etc. etc.
See- it's totally makeshift. Nothing fancy, but hey- it works!

And just cause I'm feeling really good about the sticker chart- I put a little place on there for Madi to pass off her Articles of Faith. We taught her the first one as part of FHE last week and she had it memorized by Wednesday. I wonder how long it will take her to memorize all 13!?

An extra sticker is earned if she'll say it on video- without being crazy (something about bringing out the video camera makes Madi extra silly)!